Bro

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Yo mf

quick one before you peel out of bed tomorrow without blowing your fucking brains out

(Ive been there dw, mondays are suicide fuel for most of u)

so i was on the phone to my mate yesterday and hes going on about some fucking bullshit tbh

“Im stressed and have no time”

blah blah blah - fag talk

and im sat there thinking... yeah no shit mate

you spend all day answering everyones texts within 30 seconds, youre everyones therapist, youre lending money to people who dont pay it back, youre the guy who always says yes

and youre also broke, tired, and havent been to the gym in 3 weeks

funny how that fucking works works

Now look

reason im saying this is coz…

i used to be like that

thought it made me a good person or whatever.

then i realised the people around me were getting the shittest version of me possible

sure im there for for you but im also half asleep broke as a fucking kenyan child and have no fucking energy.

then i switched it.

started putting myself first. gym. money. sleep. my shit.

mum thought i was being selfish. mates thought i was being a prick. girl gave me grief about not being around enough

(Dick withdrawls)

but heres what actually happened

i got fitter. made more money. had more patience.

became 10x more useful to everyone around me by giving a fuck about myself before anyone else

and YOU should do the same

your mum doesnt need you replying to her good morning texts instantly.

she needs you to not be a fucking loser

your girl doesnt need you anxious and broke

she needs you getting bread

put yourself first.

its not selfish its literally the only way this works

or dont

wank everyone else off around you and wonder why your covered in jizz.

Limited spaces since I answer questions live at the end

T